For the grieving parent
Here are a few validating articles about secondary/vicarious trauma which can occur in caregivers as a result of witnessing the grief of trauma and/or being on the receiving end of traumatized behaviors.
Here are a few books specific to this topic. Please check back because I hope to include a lot more information here on this topic.
PARENTING/PARENT GRIEF:
Parenting from the Inside Out by Siegel & Hartzell
Trauma Stewardship by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky & Connie Burk
The Deepest Well by Nadine Burke Harris
This Too Shall Last by KJ Ramsey*
The Wild Edge of Sorrow by Francis Weller*