When we look at the children in our care who are from hard places, the things they have been
through can sometimes seem so significant that it’s hard to even acknowledge the personal impact on us as parents, of walking alongside them in their trauma.
However, research shows that those in intensive caregiving roles frequently sustain secondary trauma, sometimes known as vicarious trauma. In simple terms, if we want to bring our best to the work of supporting and raising children from hard places, we too need room to grieve, and space to process our own legitimate sorrows, frustrations, disappointments, and losses. We often also need to support other children and family members in our homes, affected by this good but challenging work.
In this seminar, we look at the griefs and losses of foster and adoptive parents and discuss tools for confronting our own work of mending, so we can continue to show up healthy and whole for our children and our lives.